It’s just that there is so much to do and I want to do it
all. If there are that many cuisines available for takeout, imagine the number
of events: rock concerts, comedy benefits, book launches, TV wrap parties, art
openings, restaurant openings, theatre openings, even the opening of the mail
is a fete if you add champagne. – I Totally Meant to Do That, Jane Borden
When I read the line above, I thought it was the perfect
description of one of my self-diagnosed illnesses. I have mentioned before that
I suffer from FOMO, and this summer was a doozy
for me. If you ask anyone in the Windy City, they will tell you that Summers in
Chicago are the best time of the year. As mentioned in this previous post, there
are limited weeks each year where Chicagoans can put on shorts baring their
white winter legs, and enjoy beer gardens, festivals and baseball games in the
greatest city in the world.
This year, I had 3 weekends from the month of May-September
where I did not have plans. And you what I did those weekends? I made plans.
There was just so much I wanted to do! Outdoor concerts, Entertaining guests,
watching best friends tie the knot, being lazy at the lake, enjoying a street
festival, going on a cruise…the options were endless, and I didn’t want to miss
a beat! Scratch that – I couldn’t miss a beat, because I suffer from FOMO and
it is out of my control. I must do it all.
Let's start by talking about the concerts this summer...
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Note: Needed to wear the Ball State tee because the White Old Navy V was too big of a risk in the rain. |
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Here is a picture of Chad from the Dave concert 14 years ago. The guy you are afraid of in the back? That's him. |
Don't Need Money, Don't Need Fame. Do need to go to work the next day. |
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Red Solo Koozie is almost as good as a Red Solo Cup. Proceed to Party! |
So far I had seen some of my faves – country music and
oldies…but something was missing. What music do I love more than any other? 90s
music, of course!! (If you didn’t know that, how did you stumble across this
blog?) And the BEST band from the 90s is inarguably Matchbox 20, led by the
gorgeous and talented Rob Thomas….ah. This was the first time the band had
toured together in YEARS, and the last time I saw RT perform, MB20 came out and
joined him and I cried. Actual tears (Jen Zei can vouch). So clearly I was
online and ready to be the first to buy tickets when they went on sale…and yet
somehow both of their shows sold out in minutes! For any of you that are
surprised by that, I should tell you that they were touring with the Goo Goo
Dolls. If I die and go to Heaven, I imagine I will be greeted by the Dolls
assuring me they won’t tell no-one my name, and then MB20 will hand me a
raincoat. They’re always worried ‘bout things like that.
This isn't from the show.
It is when I first fell in love with Rob Thomas.
Needless to say, I wasn’t surprised that the tickets sold
out. After a “ticket-liquidator” debacle, I got 3 tickets to the show for the
ultimate sisters night a Ravinia, where you bring your own food and wine, and
(if you are really fancy) table centerpiece. Kim is also a huge fan and turned
me onto MB20, and Pam is a lover of all 90s and anytime she can eat and drink
outside. When RT played Bright Lights (Trivia – my #2 fave song of all time) I
did not know what to do with myself. I belted it out until people were staring
while Sober Pam took a video. Turns out Pam didn’t get to drink outside… That
was “Babys’ First Concert,” and the first time Pam would use the pregnancy card
to skip the shuttle line. I bet Pam will deliver the babies at 3am. Just a
guess.
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I tried to make a pizza. I failed. |
My last concert of the Summer was a tribute to the city that contributes
to my FOMO – Chicago. As a belated Mother’s Day present, we got my mom tickets
to the Chicago concert at Ravinia. We learned from our past experiences and
brought more food, more wine, and got there early. Just a Saturday in the Park
(it wasn’t the 4th of July) filled with hours of drinking in the sun
with my family – Mom, Kim, Pam, Keith, Autumn, Schmelter and Chad. You probably
don’t think you know many Chicago songs – you are wrong. Just YouTube them and
I think you’ll be surprised. “You’re the meaning in my life, you’re the
inspiration. You bring feeling to my life, you’re the inspiration…” See? You’re
singing along! The horns echoed through the park as Keith got "geese" and we sang and danced,
especially Autumn. It was that nugget’s first concert and I think she liked it
almost as much as the ranch dip.
Music, sunshine, and the best company I could ask for…that’s
summer in Chicago.
This post was brought to you courtesy of the red, white and
blue.